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Mistress Alaya on 'sissification and sissy maids"

Dear Kate

I am a 30 yr old male that has had a deep desire to become a sissymaid for years, i have suppressed it for a long time but can't do this anymore. My problem is where to begin i want to be trained completely in how do dress and serve and hopefully find a Mistress one day. I would also like do photo shoots for magazines etc. Please give me some advise as to where to start, i see all these pictures on websites and just become totally envious.

regards Mick

Aunt Kate hands over to Mistress Alaya to address this question.

Hello Mick

Yes, where does a sissy-maid begin?!?! My advice, dear sissy boy, is to start off as fully transformed as possible, and by this I mean, getting hold of as much sissy-wear as you can. By diving in head first, you'll be addicted in no time!

Lets take a look at some of the things you'll need to do to transform in preparation for a session with a Mistress and you can see what is involved.

A deliciously smooth body - all over - legs, arms, bottom - must be SMOOTH! A true sissy-maid is hairless from the face down :) So read up on how to best remove every hair. If this is just not practical because of a disapproving wife/gf then you'll simply need to choose a uniform that covers these parts - anything is possible!

You need to find the best uniform, panties, stockings, heels, hair and petticoats you can afford. There is nothing worse than to see a half-dressed sissy, or one who has not put less than 100% effort into getting the look right,, I wouldn't see any one who wears a cheap uniform!

Your make-up must be perfect, so you must practice this. A Mistress will help you at first, but you must practice at home.

If you concentrate on getting everything you need to wear to please a Mistress, you will also feel much more submissive as your 'sissywear' will be complete and you won't feel silly.

Of course, you will need to practice cock-sucking in preparation for Mistress' strap-on, plus get an anal plug to prepare your sissy-girl pussy too. There is nothing worse than a squealing virgin sissy who can't go through with what Mistress wants. Start with a smaller size and work up until you can swallow a big 6" cock - whether it be Mistress' strap-on or the cock of one of her male friends.

Another good way to start is to advertise yourself - be as sincere and detailed as possible and remember to put the needs of the Dominant first - ads that talk only about you will be ignored by most Mistresses and Masters.

And last but not least, get some good quality photos done - show the world what a delicious satin sissy-girl you are becoming and I'm sure you'll get a good response.

Good luck!

Mistress Alaya
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Hi Katie

I hope you are well. I'm 42 and I have met the most beautiful lady in the world. I have been seeing her for two years. She is very dom and I'm very sub. She loves to play with me and we have lots of leather whips and things to tie me up and things for her to wear. The problem is that I would love to tell her that I want to be her sissy maid. I have a pvc maid uniform that I puchased from sissydresses and I want to wear it for her, but I don't know if she would like that. I don't want to upset her. I love her so much and don't want to lose her, but Ii want to be totally honest with her. I hope you can help. Thank you.
Yours,

Maid Priscilla

Hello Priscilla,

Being a TV means that one often finds the need to tell white lies in order to save the feelings of friends and relatives who may not understand. Blurting it out and hoping for the best is not a good idea. So, how does one know if they would understand?

In your case, I would sound her out by testing her reaction to some TV hardcore. If she is turned on by it or thinks that you might be, she is very likely to suggest that you dress up, Your maid's outfit can then magically turn up "after you ordered it" at her suggestion.

Plenty of girls are happy to entertain TV fantasies in love-making, but be very careful to make her feel that it is a secret between the two of you. You may otherwise find your relationship unraveling very quickly.

Bon whipping! Katie

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